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What to wear to a Fetish/BDSM/Alternative party

We appreciate that it is much easier to dress for a fetish event as a woman than a man and although we don’t want to be too controlling over dress code we do ask that you dress to impress

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The difference between a submissive and a slave

Mistress Bella graces our pages again with Her interminable knowledge of the BDSM lifestyle and community. Here She brings another instalment of BDSM 101 Mistress Bella Style and discusses the difference...


Tips for BDSM newbies

Before you begin, communicate, communicate and communicate some more! Trust and honesty are key to any BDSM dynamic.

 

 

 

Deciding to embark on expanding your horizons through...


S & M scenes for couples

(Please note this is written assuming you have an understanding of safe practices and that you have discussed limits and safe words in advance. Stay safe kinksters!)

 

 

So you have...


What does is take to be Dominant?

 

 

Lifestyle FemDomme LadyThunder-MsBella has been involved with this lifestyle Her whole life as not only were Her parents in a D/s relationship but also both of Her grandmothers were...


The swinging and BDSM lifestyle crossover

Updated: Apr 17

Although BDSM and swinging are two very different lifestyles and communities they have a massive crossover appeal which I think is down to both groups being more adventurous and open...